瞒着上司悄悄地找工作(2)

她还说，如果你的交际网不够大的话，那么在你在职期间扩大是最简单的了。她提醒说："在职的求职者与那些失业了的求职者相比，有非常大的优势。因为他们可以和同一行业的任何人联系上，请他们去喝咖啡，不用开口要求任何事情也可以了解他们。"而这些人在你失业的时候可能不会接受你的任何邀请。同样的情况也会发生在你交际网中已存在的人脉中间。

"If you let a connection lapse, you may encounter apathy when you ask for help," Ryan adds.
Ryan 补充说："如果你失去了一份联系的话，在你需要帮助的时候可能会遭遇冷漠。"

Be Ready with References
准备好推荐信

If you\'re looking for a job while you have one, you probably don\'t want to use your boss or a current colleague as a reference. This is particularly vexing if you\'ve held the same position for a number of years. Ryan, an expert on the new millennium workplace, advises, "We have to cultivate references all the time. Look to people who have left the company. Former clients. Even vendors. You may think a vendorwouldn\'t roll over on a client they serve, but they\'re pragmatic. You may be a good contact for them down the road." Individuals you know through volunteer activities and professional associations can also act as references.
如果你在有工作的时候求职的话，你可能不会想要你的上司或同事帮你写推荐信。尤其是如果你在同一职位做了几年的话这种情况尤其让人伤脑筋。Ryan是一位新千年职场的专家，她建议说："我们必须时刻准备好推荐信。去找已经离开公司的同事，或以前的客户，或以前的供应商帮你写推荐信。你可能认为一个供应商不能给他们服务的客户写什么推荐信之类的，但是他们的推荐也是很有效的。因为你可能在将来某个时刻和他们会有很好的接触。"你认识的熟人中那些参加过志愿工作或专业协会的也可以为你写推荐信。

Another great opportunity for references from your current boss and coworkers are LinkedIn endorsements. "Approach your boss in an \'up\' moment, when you\'ve gone the extra mile or saved something, and ask, \'Do you use LinkedIn? May I ask you for an endorsement? It would be fantastic because I\'m thinking of becoming an officer in a professional association.\' Or something to that effect." Once you have the endorsement, it\'s there for potential employers to see.
另外一个从你当前的上司或同事那里得到推荐信的机会是百度签注 。"在一个好的时机去找你的老板，比如在你比别人多做了一点事情的时候或挽救了什么事情的时候，问他‘你是否用LinkedIn\'我是否可以得到您的签注？这样会很棒，因为我一直想着要成为一个专业协会的一员。\'或说些其他有用的事情。"一旦你得到了这份签注，那么有朝一日你的潜在雇主可能就会看到。